Live With Joy With Coach Erika L. Wilkins

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Stop Paying With Your Peace

You have been spending your peace as if it were refillable, handing it to people who never earned the privilege of holding it. However, peace is not a currency — and you are done paying for other people’s chaos with your sanity. This is your wake-up call to reclaim what is yours and remind the…
Do Not You Dare Drag That Mess Into January

December is not about doing more. December is about “de-ing” what has been weighing you down. You cannot step into a new season holding onto old clutter, old habits, and old wounds. This month is your chance to clear the spiritual, mental, emotional, and practical junk that has been blocking your growth. If you want…
Generational Curses Do Not Break Themselves

Healing is not optional. It is survival, especially for mothers and fathers, breaking generational cycles and raising emotionally healthy children. This powerful blog dives deep into why healing is legacy work, how kids learn from the emotional patterns they see, and why parents must confront old wounds to protect their children’s future. When you choose…
Paid in Full – No Payment Required

You have been living like you owe the world an explanation, a payment, or a piece of yourself just to breathe — but you do not. The things that matter most in your life were already paid for: your peace, your purpose, your healing, and your worth. This book is your reminder that everything God…
Not Picked… but Still Chosen

Every “no” that stung was really a setup for something better. I was never created for tiny rooms or low ceilings, and being skipped showed me exactly where I did not belong. Check out this blog if you are tired of shrinking and ready to see why you were never meant to fit the box…
“Got to Be More Careful”

‘Got to be more careful’ was not just something our grandmothers muttered under their breath—it was a whole warning label for life. This blog breaks down how that old-school wisdom still applies today, reminding us to slow down, trust our intuition, and stop ignoring the red flags waving right in front of us. It is…