We have all heard the whispers of doubt—those subtle, nagging voices that convince us to stay where it is comfortable, keep our dreams modest, and accept the life we have been given rather than reach for the life we desire. But what if I told you that you have permission to live a big life? That you do not have to play small, dim your light, or shrink to fit into spaces that no longer serve you?

This is not just a motivational pep talk. It is a call to action. It is time to step into the fullness of who you are meant to be.

Recognizing the Cage of Playing Small

Many of us grow up conditioned to think that wanting more is selfish or arrogant. We suppress our ambitions to avoid making others uncomfortable. We tell ourselves that we are “doing fine,” even when deep down, there is a longing for something greater.

Playing small looks like:

• Settling for a career that does not ignite your passion.
• Saying “yes” when your heart screams “no.”
• Hiding your gifts and talents out of fear of judgment.
• Staying in relationships that do not nurture your growth.

But let me tell you something: Fine is not enough. You were not created to live a life that is just “okay.” You were created to thrive, to dream boldly, and to make an impact.

The Power of Permission

Sometimes, we wait for someone to tell us it is okay to dream big. We look for external validation to go after what we want. But what if the only permission you needed was your own?

Give yourself permission to:

1. Dream Bigger: Stop limiting your imagination. The life you envision is possible, but you must first dare to dream it.
2. Take Risks: Growth often lies on the other side of fear. Step into the unknown, even when it feels uncomfortable.
3. Own Your Gifts: You have unique talents and perspectives that the world needs. Do not downplay them.
4. Let Go: Release relationships, habits, and beliefs that keep you tethered to mediocrity.

Stepping Into Your Greatness

Living a big life does not mean it will be without challenges. You will face resistance—internally and externally. But you will also discover a strength within you that you never knew existed.

Here is how to start:

• Get Clear: What does “living a big life” mean to you? Write it down. Visualize it.
• Take Small Steps: Greatness does not happen overnight. Commit to one bold step every day.
• Surround Yourself with Encouragement: Align with people who celebrate your growth and challenge you to rise higher.
• Invest in Yourself: Whether it is education, travel, or self-care, make yourself a priority.

You Were Meant for More

This is your reminder that there is more waiting for you. More joy, more love, more fulfillment, more adventure. But to claim it, you have to stop playing small. You have to believe that you are worthy of the life you’ve always dreamed of—and then take the steps to make it yours.

The world needs your brilliance, your creativity, and your authenticity. So step into the fullness of who you are. Grant yourself permission to live a big life. And watch how everything around you begins to expand.

It’s your time. Permission granted.

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Coach Erika