God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don’t run after them. — Mandy Hale

As a life mastery coach, I often find myself guiding clients through the complexities of personal growth and spiritual alignment. One lesson that frequently arises is the challenge of obedience, especially when it comes to letting go of things we hold dear.

Obeying God feels effortless when His guidance aligns with our desires. We can easily agree to follow when it involves pursuing a new opportunity or embracing a fresh start. But what happens when God nudges us to release something we want to keep? That is where the real test lies.

I remember a time when I felt God urging me to let go of a relationship that had become a significant part of my life. It was comfortable, familiar, and filled with memories. However, deep down, I sensed that clinging to it was holding me back from the growth I was meant to experience. The struggle to release this relationship was palpable, filled with fear of the unknown and sorrow for what I would lose.

The moment we are asked to relinquish something we desire, it is as if the ground beneath us shifts. We start questioning our worth, our choices, and even our faith. “What if I’m making a mistake?” “What if I can’t find happiness without this?” These questions swirl around in our minds. They create a cacophony of doubt.

Yet, it is crucial to remember that God’s plans often transcend our immediate understanding. Letting go is not about punishment. Rather, it is about preparation. When we hold onto something tightly, we may miss out on the new blessings that God has in store for us. It is like trying to catch rain with a closed fist. We only end up with nothing but frustration.

In my journey, I have learned obedience is not merely about compliance. It is about cultivating trust in the divine process. When I finally surrendered and let go, I discovered a newfound freedom and clarity. I began to see the beautiful opportunities that were waiting for me, ones I could not have embraced while still clinging to the past.

Letting go is not a sign of weakness but an act of courage. It takes strength to release what we think we cannot live without. As you navigate your own journey, I encourage you to reflect on what God might be asking you to let go of. Is it a relationship, a habit, or a limiting belief?

Remember, God’s purpose for your life is greater than any attachment you may be holding onto. Embrace the discomfort that comes with letting go. It is a crucial step in your personal evolution. Trust that in surrendering, you are making space for something more fulfilling, more aligned with your true path.

As I continue to walk this journey alongside my clients, I remind them: obedience is a journey, not a destination. It’s okay to struggle, to question, and even to grieve. Just remember that every ending is a new beginning waiting to unfold. Embrace it, and you might just find that the best is yet to come.

Embracing the journey,

Erika