In my journey, I have encountered a truth that is as profound as it is disheartening: a client will become a friend quicker than a friend will become a client. This revelation has surfaced time and again, leaving me both disappointed and, sadly, not surprised. Today, I want to share my reflections on this dynamic and what it might reveal about the health of our friendships.

I have dedicated my life to guiding others through their challenges, helping them reach their fullest potential, and nurturing their personal growth. It is a calling I embrace with passion and a deep sense of purpose. Yet, along this path, I have noticed an unsettling trend. The people with whom I communicate, seeking guidance and support, often become some of my most cherished friends. They value the insights and care I offer, and a genuine bond of trust and mutual respect grows between us.

On the other hand, those I consider friends—the ones I expect to be in my corner, cheering me on, and supporting my endeavors—often remain distant, uninterested in the purpose I fulfill or the services/guidance I offer. It is a bitter pill to swallow when the people you hold dearest do not seem to recognize or appreciate your efforts and contributions.

I read a Facebook post which caused me to ponder about this disparity, causing me to reflect deeply on the nature of friendship and support. Why is it that a client can so easily become a friend, while a friend chooses to abstain from becoming a client? Could it be that our friendships are not as healthy as we believe them to be?

Healthy friendships are built on mutual respect, understanding, and support. They are dynamic and should evolve as we grow and change. When friends do not support our endeavors, it may indicate a lack of genuine connection or an imbalance in the relationship. It is a sign that perhaps our friendships are more superficial than we’d like to admit.

As I navigate this reality, I’m learning to manage my expectations and reassess the relationships in my life. It’s a painful process, acknowledging that those who claim to be friends may not truly have my back. Nonetheless, it is also empowering. It enables me to focus my energy on building healthier, more supportive connections with those who genuinely care.

To anyone reading this who finds themselves in a similar situation, know that you are not alone. It is important to recognize the signs and make peace with the fact that not all friendships are meant to last or serve our highest good. Surround yourself with those who uplift you, who see and value your worth, and who are willing to support you in your journey.

In the end, the bonds we forge with clients who become friends remind us that true connection transcends the traditional boundaries of friendship. These relationships are often grounded in a profound mutual respect and a shared commitment to growth and support. Cherish these connections, for they are rare and beautiful.

Remember, the health of our friendships can often be measured by the support we receive from those closest to us. If you find that your friends are not becoming clients, it might be time to reassess the depth and authenticity of those relationships. Embrace the journey. Let go of what no longer serves you. Finally, make space for the people who truly value and support your path.

Surrounding you with light and love,

Erika