Hey there, beautiful souls:

Today, I want to share with you something close to my heart—learning from mistakes. You know, life has this funny way of teaching us lessons, often through experiences we wish we could rewind and do differently. But, if I’ve learned anything, it’s that every stumble is a chance to grow stronger.

I have had my share of “been there, done that” moments. Trust me, navigating life’s twists and turns hasn’t always been smooth sailing. From trusting the wrong people to making decisions in haste, I have had my fair share of regrets. Here is the kicker: each misstep taught me something invaluable.

One of the biggest lessons? Trusting my intuition. You see, that little voice inside—call it intuition, gut feeling, divine guidance—it is there for a reason. Whenever I have ignored it, I have found myself knee-deep in situations that could have been avoided. Now, I have learned to listen closely and trust that inner wisdom.

Another gem I have unearthed along the way is the power of self-care. Oh yes, taking care of yourself isn’t just about bubble baths and spa days. Though, those are divine. It is about setting boundaries, saying no when necessary, and prioritizing my well-being. Burnout? Not on my watch anymore. Learning to balance giving to others with giving to myself has been a game-changer.

And relationships? They’re the ultimate classroom for growth. I have learned that not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay. Some teach you about trust, others about forgiveness, and some, well, they show you what you truly deserve. It is all part of the journey of understanding who aligns with your path and who does not.

Now, let’s talk about forgiveness—starting with forgiving ourselves. It is easy to beat ourselves up over past mistakes, replaying scenarios in our minds. However, we must understand that holding onto guilt or shame only weighs us down. I have learned to forgive myself because I know each mistake was a stepping stone to becoming who I am today—stronger, wiser, and more compassionate.

So, my sisters, if you’re feeling stuck in a cycle of “been there, done that,” remember this: every experience, good or bad, is a chance to learn and grow. Embrace your journey. Celebrate your resilience. Trust that you are exactly where you need to be. Life isn’t about avoiding mistakes—it’s about turning them into opportunities for transformation. So, allow yourself to transform.

With love and light,

Erika